What is good for the goose,

is good for the gander as the saying goes. But what is implied here is that in fact, women routinely look at mens crotch. I mean… yeah I guess we are expected to keep our eyes down and often that will lead us to examine many a belt buckle. I mean of course, we are traditionally shorter than men so our gaze would naturally settle lower… so obviously we are looking at the penis area imagining what is hiding underneath the clothing. It is why we love getting dick pics. I mean we literally have no imagination and require visual aids.

And as women, we enjoy being coy, and teasing, we love to put our wares on show but … hell, don’t even look let alone touch. Isn’t that right girls? Sorry, ladies! 

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You see the difference here is very simple, as simple matter of habit, or comfort, of conformity… I don’t know and really this isn’t the post to discuss it. Would it make for an interesting discussion?

Side Bar: A teacher in primary school once pointed out that we spend our time looking at the floor, and we should look up occasionally. It was actually homework. So you know, keep that in mind when you are out and about.

The fact is, women, are not really THAT interested in what you are packing, in a general sense. But what we do notice is when men don’t make eye contact. There is a very big difference between a casual gaze, we all do it for the most basic reasons when perambulating, so that you don’t walk into people. It is the searching gaze, the fixed gaze that settles on our breasts. Worse so when we are having a conversation with a man doing this. Or even if he is part of a social group and can’t manage to fix his gaze any further up. I mean that is why we jokingly ask ‘do you even know what colour my eyes are’.

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We all have boobs, they are all different sizes, shapes. We know they are there. We also know that they are sexually objectively objectified. So you know, it would be really lovely, if when talking to us, you could maybe … for a moment remember that we are human beings and not just objects. Which is exactly what looking at our boobs makes us feel like.

So, sorry Menninists, or anti feminists, or whatever title you will to offer yourself. If you honestly feel that women spend their time looking at your dick, so by suggesting looking at boobs should be allowable because we are all about being treated equally… I mean… 

Are you even kidding me with this? Are you even trying? How often do women spend their time looking at a crotch even when talking to you? I mean, random women, co workers, neighbours, how often do women find it difficult to tear their eyes away and look up toward at least your magnificent beard? I mean really, if you just grew a beard this really would be a non issue. I mean women can’t keep their eyes… oh sorry, getting facetious but the meme wasn’t even trying. 

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2 thoughts on “What is good for the goose,

  1. Yep! Leaving aside the Feminist crap and angst, you’ve got a point. A lot of guys are kind of stupid when it comes to tits and more so when it comes to women.

    And I do mean stupid. They’d rack up – pun intended – a higher “score” by checking out the tits and then moving on up and making eye contact, especially when they or the women are freaking speaking. So, without even going into proper behavior, they’re hurting their own chances of getting laid by not doing so. 😉

    1. I will try not to take offence at ‘feminist crap’ 😉 The images in the series are taken from a meninist group on FB that try and suggest double standards and by doing so undermine the ‘feminist agenda’ hehe so yeah kinda hard to avoid the feminist stuff when a. I am one, and b. that is the point of the article. But frankly, feminist or not, there is no double standard at play, I have up to this evening, managed to conduct all my conversations whilst not looking at peoples genitalia, you know… time and place for that stuff. But yeah, honestly by continuing to act like women are just a handle vehicle for getting boobs from point a to point b is undermining any chance of getting to know the person behind the cleavage. Hhahah sorry, I didn’t mean to essay at you!

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